I won't bother to read the whole thread, but I'll give you my opinion on your opinion.
Yours is great.
Much like a large intestine, everyone has one. Some, like you, seem to have one that is easily irritated. Some, like the majority of the folks I know from this site and other online sites, do not suffer the same affliction.
It is very... democratic, shall we say, for you to share your pain and expect others to fix your intestinal inadequacies, but alas, for your ass, it ain't gonna happen.
IF what you said was universally true, then what is universally seen would be failure. That's not what I see.
Big boy pants, knotted panties, twisted knickers, whatever ails you, I think it's you that may have the problem.