Twenty years old and I still can't talk to girls....fml

[RobNJ]

I have found that when I don't think about it so much and just do it, talking to girls is actually very easy and not at all scary like I make it seem when I over analyze the situation lol

This whole thread, it's obvious that you spend too much time way over thinking things and you're making yourself nervous. Just talk man...most women will respond kindly in one way or another, though far less will actually be receptive. It's just how it is, so the more you talk, the more you're putting the odds in your favor of being talked back to. No offense, but you being 20 and talking about picking up and moving to another country near a girl you've been talking to via internet for 3 months is just plain crazy. Relax, don't think about things beyond the initial conversation, and roll with it as it goes. Too much thought and looking beyond now is only going to put pressure on yourself and you're gonna screw up. You'll know if/when things need to be taken up a notch.

[mr.spooky]

Drug dealing single mom who dumps the kid on you and has exes all over town?

Sounds like a winner.

Maybe your problem is that you're in Knoxville

LOL,,, coming from sombody in MN....... everywheres got there crackheads.. If you hang out with the dogs,,, your gonna get flees......
spooky

[EricWright]

Like the title says, i'm twenty years old now and I still can't talk to girls. I still tried the whole pass them a note thing like I did a couple days ago but i've only even done that twice, ever. So what the hell is wrong with me? Any time I want to talk to a pretty girl I sit there and think about it for a while and then by the time I have a chance i'm like "Screw it, what's the point?" As much as I would like to I always come to the conclusion that it's completely pointless and a waste of time. But I can talk to girls online like nothing. Guess I have no confidence. Anyone else with a similar problem or dealt with this before that can give me some advise?

Here's your first problem. You're asking for advice from a bunch of strangers on an internet forum about snakes.

Go to the gym. Lift some weights to get big. Or if you're fat go running and don't eat so much. These will give you confidence and make you look more attractive.

Here's the second thing that makes you attractive to women $$$$. Get a job and make money. Go to school to get a better job and make more money so you can afford more women.

That's pretty much all there is to women. They like muscles and money. And shiny things like diamonds. But those come from the money.

[Raptor]

Here's your first problem. You're asking for advice from a bunch of strangers on an internet forum about snakes.

Go to the gym. Lift some weights to get big. Or if you're fat go running and don't eat so much. These will give you confidence and make you look more attractive.

Here's the second thing that makes you attractive to women $$$$. Get a job and make money. Go to school to get a better job and make more money so you can afford more women.

That's pretty much all there is to women. They like muscles and money. And shiny things like diamonds. But those come from the money.

Thanks for speaking for every single woman in existence.

Frankly, I can't stand jewelry. It's annoying, easy to lose, and tends to get caught on things. Me? I like a guy capable of carrying on an intelligent conversation. Guy doesn't know anything about video games? No, thanks. Not much money? Eh, going out is a hassle. Much more fun to pop a DVD into the PS3 and watch something at home. If you're going to insist on buying me something, get me a video game. Flowers wilt after a few days, and half the time, chocolate goes to waste.

Point is, women aren't as black and white as you act like they are; claiming that they all like the same things is fairly foolish.

[rebelrachel13]

Here's the second thing that makes you attractive to women $$$$.
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That's pretty much all there is to women. They like muscles and money. And shiny things like diamonds. But those come from the money.

Um.... no.

I don't have much to say about this except that it's incorrect and very presumptuous. Raptor said most of it. I'm into video games and intelligent conversation as well, and I couldn't care less about how many muscles or money a guy has or whether he gives me shallow gifts like jewelry.

I don't know what women you've dated are like, but most of the girls I know (including myself) would be put off by that sort of attitude.

[BallsUnlimited]

Um.... no.

I don't have much to say about this except that it's incorrect and very presumptuous. Raptor said most of it. I'm into video games and intelligent conversation as well, and I couldn't care less about how many muscles or money a guy has or whether he gives me shallow gifts like jewelry.

I don't know what women you've dated are like, but most of the girls I know (including myself) would be put off by that sort of attitude.

Move to new york an youll see why people say this haha

[Mike41793]

Here's your first problem. You're asking for advice from a bunch of strangers on an internet forum about snakes.

Go to the gym. Lift some weights to get big. Or if you're fat go running and don't eat so much. These will give you confidence and make you look more attractive.

Here's the second thing that makes you attractive to women $$$$. Get a job and make money. Go to school to get a better job and make more money so you can afford more women.

That's pretty much all there is to women. They like muscles and money. And shiny things like diamonds. But those come from the money.

lmao. So like if i become a doctor or lawyer how many women you think i could afford then...? Can i use my credit card to buy them or only cash...?

[rebelrachel13]

Move to new york an youll see why people say this haha

Haha! No thanks. I'll stay put down here for now.

[BallsUnlimited]

Haha! No thanks. I'll stay put down here for now.

we get that a lot when we tell people to come here. i dont think people like ny haha

[Natassja]

Here's your first problem. You're asking for advice from a bunch of strangers on an internet forum about snakes.

Go to the gym. Lift some weights to get big. Or if you're fat go running and don't eat so much. These will give you confidence and make you look more attractive.

Here's the second thing that makes you attractive to women $$$$. Get a job and make money. Go to school to get a better job and make more money so you can afford more women.

That's pretty much all there is to women. They like muscles and money. And shiny things like diamonds. But those come from the money.

Spot on! Kudos!

Just kidding, This dont apply to any woman I ever met. However, funny reading