Twenty years old and I still can't talk to girls....fml

[Natassja]

Let me rephrase: i hate spoiled, annoying, misbehaved kids. Well behave and polite ones are fine with me lol. Theyre just far and few between.

Great Burmese Python food!

[evan385]

I think i'll just go live with Chantelle in the U.K. I want the leave the U.S. anyways with it's stupid snake bans. I've been talking to her for months now. She's beautiful, we get along great, I know a lot about her, and she's a big time exotics breeder over there. The list of exotics she has is too big to list. She has just about every type of exotic animal that you could think of. She has banana ball pythons, she has other very rare exotics. I could go on and on about all the reasons why she would be perfect for me. We love each other but we're not actually dating because of the distance and the fact that we haven't even seen each other. Need to at least meet her first lol

[BallsUnlimited]

Drug dealing single mom who dumps the kid on you and has exes all over town?

Sounds like a winner.

Maybe your problem is that you're in Knoxville

You took the words right outta my mouth. The drug dealing single mom thing tho doesnt come as a surprise to me as i can step out my house an see them all day. But for real Evan she is bad news an not the good kinda bad news.

[satomi325]

But for real Evan she is bad news an not the good kinda bad news.

When is bad news ever good? Haha.


Evan, I think you're rushing into finding the perfect girlfriend really fast.
Finding the right person takes time. You're 20. Still very young. Many people don't even know who they are at that age. I'm not saying that you don't, but people change a lot in their youth.


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[evan385]

When is bad news ever good? Haha.


Evan, I think you're rushing into finding the perfect girlfriend really fast.
Finding the right person takes time. You're 20. Still very young. Many people don't even know who they are at that age. I'm not saying that you don't, but people change a lot in their youth.


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Yeah I think you're right. I want to leave the U.S. anyways. I just don't know when. Maybe i'll get an apartment or a house somewhere near her, talk to her for a while, really get to know her and see where it goes. If it doesn't go anywhere well there's lots of other girls in the U.K.

[BallsUnlimited]

When is bad news ever good? Haha.





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hahah good question maybe its just an NY thing hahah

[TrpnBils]

I'll be honest, I'm laughing right now. I'm not laughing at you, but I'm laughing because I could have written this post almost verbatim when I was 20. Now I'm 28, I'm happily married, and although certain aspects of that still remain I've been able to overcome most of it. I even went so far in college as to subscribe to this weekly email newsletter entitled "How to talk to women" or "How to get a woman's number in 10 minutes" or something to that effect. It was totally ridiculous and basically taught guys how to come off as complete d-bags and only attract shallow women which wasn't what I was interested in doing.

I was the least confident guy you'd ever meet in high school and college, but once you get a little more confidence in yourself and feel comfortable in your own head it gets easier. Stop the self-analysis over everything and just be yourself.

[evan385]

I'll be honest, I'm laughing right now. I'm not laughing at you, but I'm laughing because I could have written this post almost verbatim when I was 20. Now I'm 28, I'm happily married, and although certain aspects of that still remain I've been able to overcome most of it. I even went so far in college as to subscribe to this weekly email newsletter entitled "How to talk to women" or "How to get a woman's number in 10 minutes" or something to that effect. It was totally ridiculous and basically taught guys how to come off as complete d-bags and only attract shallow women which wasn't what I was interested in doing.

I was the least confident guy you'd ever meet in high school and college, but once you get a little more confidence in yourself and feel comfortable in your own head it gets easier. Stop the self-analysis over everything and just be yourself.

Thank you very much!

[evan385]

I have found that when I don't think about it so much and just do it, talking to girls is actually very easy and not at all scary like I make it seem when I over analyze the situation lol

[BallsUnlimited]

honestly you know what works for me. i make fun of myself. they laugh and then its on to normal conversation. Once you get over that hump(get your mind outta the gutter lol) it becomes rather easy. i use to be really really really shy now im a loud obnoxious creepy snake guy. dont ask me why but it works hahah