Quote Originally Posted by bsash View Post
Alright, I am so glad I found your post! My last relation ship was just like this. We dated for two years, but just like you stated, very early on he is trying to take charge. From my findings of my last relationship, it's not going to work out either way. I will admit I was hooked on the guy, and I listened and got rid of my last snakes that I had, and we spent all the time in the world together, almost none of which was with my friends. But it doesn't end there... first it's the snakes, next they will want you to move in with them, maybe stop talking to certain friends that you have, etc.. Over all, they end up just wanting to be the dominate one, and control every aspect of your life, and I am not the one for that. I lost a lot of friends from that relation ship, and well, my animals of course.

I don't want to bring you down, I'm just saying, most likely it is not going to stop with just the snakes, it will continue into other things, and nothing will be good enough for him. I do wish you the best, and again, I don't want to bring you down, just wanted to let you in on my life so hopefully you will make the right decision for you.
I think I just needed other people to tell me the hard truth of what I was being to naive to really see. Because I didn't want to believe it. Because you are right, he get's all weird about me hanging out with my best friends who is really important to me and is one of the only other reasons I am normally staying sane.

I just needed other people to get it into my head, because i wasn't going to admit it that it was going to get this way. I didn't want to believe it. Not agian.