Do you think it's ok?

[NormanSnake]

So if your decision is to change nothing then what was the point of the thread...? You can't honestly tell me you thought that someone was gunna say "yea its totally ok to make big purchases behind your partners back!"

Of course not but I'm in a special situation that I won't go into detail on, and it has left me with very few options.

EDIT: I re-read that and I just want to clarify that I am not pregnant. lol