Do you think it's ok?

[Mike41793]

you said it, not me. I don't, and this may sound selfish, but it sure makes things a heck of a lot easier financially if there are two people pulling the weight and not just one.

You misunderstood what i meant then... I didn't mean you HAD to right away lol.

It is easier if two people are paying bills, that doesn't seem to be the case here though from what you've said. You seem to be pulling more of the weight.