Sometimes I hate him!

[Kinra]

I advised the OP get him into treatment asap multiple times. If he won't go and get sober then he is content with losing her and she doesn't have to stick around.... I never even suggested she should never leave no matter what... I was simply saying out of the love a woman has for her husband, she should at least attempt to get him into recovery and not just leave without a fight.

Not quite sure why everyone is so upset with me but I expect most are just replying to select posts instead of reading them all in their entirety and in their correct context.

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I think your first post did upset a lot of people, but I think people are also upset about the fact that the OP says she hasn't eaten in 3 days (possibly 4 now). I think there is a lot to this situation that we don't know but given what has been told to us by the OP it sounds like there are things that need to change.

I get that you are trying to show a different perspective but she needs to look out for herself first. It doesn't sound like she is in a position where she can help him. I think people would be offering different advice if she wasn't starving and worry about being able to pay rent.