I'm also late to this thread... Sheesh, 10 pages! You've got an awesome support team going on here!!

I just wanted to say that I moved in with my BF after 1 month of dating and we've been together for 5 years, and still going strong... BUT, it was under totally different circumstances. Imo, him getting all huffy over not moving in together throws a huge red flag.

Also just wanted to say that you are young, and you have the rest of your life to find the person that makes you happy. If this one isn't the one, at least you know now, right? Starting the search again isn't fun... But it's rewarding when you find that golden egg.