I have a 16 year old daughter that is smoking cigarettes. My daughter does not live with me, she lives with my ex-husband. I have tried talking to her about this and all she says to me is that it is ok, it's not like I'm addicted or anything, and it's my choice. I talk to my daugther on a regular basis. I know that my ex-husband does not know that our daughter is smoking. My child hangs out with a "bad bunch" and I am convinced this is why she is smoking. Now, my ex and I do not talk at all. I know how to get in contact with him though. My question is this, Do I talk to him and tell him what our daughter is doing or do I just keep my mouth shut? I am having a hard time keeping this to myself. My child is having a rough time adapting to my not being there. Unfortunately, this is the way it has to be right now. She does not believe in God either. I am not trying to turn this into a religious debate. I really just need some good sound advice here. Thanks for reading this.