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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by evan385
So i've been thinking. In a last ditch effort to see if I can get her mother to like me i'm just gonna back off until she turns eighteen. Also I don't need any unnecessary trouble. If she still wants to be with me when she turns eighteen then it's meant to be and it will be.
It aint about trying to get her mom to like you. If her mom is really physically abusive towards her then it needs to be reported. If she really has burned her with cigarettes and cut her as you say then there will be marks that can be shown, and it will only take one single phone call to get her out of that situation.
99% of normal 16 year old girls are not ready for that level of commitment. Someone who has been mentally and physically abused, and who has been suicidal ABSOLUTELY IS NOT ready for that level of commitment.
You don't even know who she will be when she is 18... neither does she.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by CatandDiallo
But when you find out how old she is, that's when you call it quits. That what an adult would do.
I met this amazing guy (well, he was a manager at a store I worked at - but at a different location, so we didn't know anything about each other).
We both thought we were closer in age.
I was 19 and he turned out to be 29. Even though it wasn't illegal, when we found out about each other's ages, we decided that it wasn't going to work out because we weren't on the same level.
That's different. With me we had already been dating for six months and talking every day of those six moths for hours on end before I found out her real age and I already loved her so much.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by Mike Cavanaugh
It aint about trying to get her mom to like you. If her mom is really physically abusive towards her then it needs to be reported. If she really has burned her with cigarettes and cut her as you say then there will be marks that can be shown, and it will only take one single phone call to get her out of that situation.
99% of normal 16 year old girls are not ready for that level of commitment. Someone who has been mentally and physically abused, and who has been suicidal ABSOLUTELY IS NOT ready for that level of commitment.
You don't even know who she will be when she is 18... neither does she.
Well said! This is exactly my point! I heard that from Skiploder too. I would hope that it will stop and they can put this behind them. I don't want her to hate her mother and I want them to have a good healthy relationship. I realize that this will probably never happen but I can hope. If I talk to her any time soon I will have her report her mother. I know that she's told her grandfather and he hasn't done anything. IF she still wants to be with me when she turns eighteen then I will help her as much as I can to have a happy, healthy, normal life. If not then it's not the end of the world. I would find another girl when I eventually got over her and I would make sure that she is eighteen or older.
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Re: Completely devastated
Wow this thread really popped off since i was last on !!!!!!:D
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Okay, I have to say something, and I hope that no one takes offence, but having been a 16 year old girl, I think this is an extremely relevant point. This girl SAYS a lot of things about her mother, her life, her relationships with you and with others. Here is the thing though, in person, you have only met her once. You have no way of knowing whether or not those things are true. I am not calling your girl a liar, but long distance relationships not based in real experience are often an outlet for fantasy. This girl may very well genuinely like you, but she also might just like the attention and knowing that there is some one who can always give it to her. She is, no matter what you feel, still a child.
When I was 15, my "boyfriend" was 23. I though I was soooo cool then. Now, I think he's a creep. There is absolutely no legitimate reason that a grown man should have had that kind of interest in what was essentially a child, no matter how much I wanted to be or thought I was mature. To be fair, at 16 I held a steady job, went to school and took care of my little brother and sister, but the way that I thought about situations and my life was dreadfully immature. I often cannot believe how much I've grown up since I thought I was full grown. The age difference in a "real life" relationship could very well be circumstantial, but the age difference in a long distance relationship, especially with you as the elder partner is a little bit difficult to understand because there is no way of knowing if you actually know this girl at all.
If this girl wanted to get in touch with you, she would. She would call from a friends cell phone, or use gmail or skype which both allow free calls from any computer. If her mother's wishes are that you leave her alone, I believe you should do that especially if she herself is respecting those wishes. You are both constructing fantasies of one another, and without direct interaction there is no system of check and balances to keep those fantasies in line with reality. Often fantasy is better than reality, and a few years from now if you reconnect, you might not like what you find. My final note is a little depressing, but it is important. Sometimes love is not enough.
Please be open to life. Fixation and obsession are not healthy. Love only comes when you are honestly and truly happy within yourself, and that rarely if ever presents concurrently with adolescent relationships. Good luck.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by evan385
That's different. With me we had already been dating for six months and talking every day of those six moths for hours on end before I found out her real age and I already loved her so much.
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It doesn't really matter. The law is the law.
When I was 16, I thought I loved the guy I was with so much. I was ready to marry him. I would have (and did) do anything for him (including literally saving his life - he attempted suicide via drug overdose, and I found him and got him to the hospital in the nick of time).
I loved him, but I had to let him go. He ended up going to rehab in the states and came back a completely different person.
You never know what's going to happen. Basically what I'm trying to say is: leave the option that you might not be with her in the future open.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by AtlasStrike
Okay, I have to say something, and I hope that no one takes offence, but having been a 16 year old girl, I think this is an extremely relevant point. This girl SAYS a lot of things about her mother, her life, her relationships with you and with others. Here is the thing though, in person, you have only met her once. You have no way of knowing whether or not those things are true. I am not calling your girl a liar, but long distance relationships not based in real experience are often an outlet for fantasy. This girl may very well genuinely like you, but she also might just like the attention and knowing that there is some one who can always give it to her. She is, no matter what you feel, still a child.
When I was 15, my "boyfriend" was 23. I though I was soooo cool then. Now, I think he's a creep. There is absolutely no legitimate reason that a grown man should have had that kind of interest in what was essentially a child, no matter how much I wanted to be or thought I was mature. To be fair, at 16 I held a steady job, went to school and took care of my little brother and sister, but the way that I thought about situations and my life was dreadfully immature. I often cannot believe how much I've grown up since I thought I was full grown. The age difference in a "real life" relationship could very well be circumstantial, but the age difference in a long distance relationship, especially with you as the elder partner is a little bit difficult to understand because there is no way of knowing if you actually know this girl at all.
If this girl wanted to get in touch with you, she would. She would call from a friends cell phone, or use gmail or skype which both allow free calls from any computer. If her mother's wishes are that you leave her alone, I believe you should do that especially if she herself is respecting those wishes. You are both constructing fantasies of one another, and without direct interaction there is no system of check and balances to keep those fantasies in line with reality. Often fantasy is better than reality, and a few years from now if you reconnect, you might not like what you find. My final note is a little depressing, but it is important. Sometimes love is not enough.
Please be open to life. Fixation and obsession are not healthy. Love only comes when you are honestly and truly happy within yourself, and that rarely if ever presents concurrently with adolescent relationships. Good luck.
Thank you. I respect your opinion and know that you know nothing about either me or her. I have no further comments for you. Have a good night. It's about time for me to feed my lovely lady. (Captain Hook)
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There is no law against relationships, the laws are about sexual consent. There is a VERY important difference.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by CatandDiallo
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It doesn't really matter. The law is the law.
When I was 16, I thought I loved the guy I was with so much. I was ready to marry him. I would have (and did) do anything for him (including literally saving his life - he attempted suicide via drug overdose, and I found him and got him to the hospital in the nick of time).
I loved him, but I had to let him go. He ended up going to rehab in the states and came back a completely different person.
You never know what's going to happen. Basically what I'm trying to say is: leave the option that you might not be with her in the future open.
I've already said in an early post that i'm going to back off until she turns eighteen. If she still wants to be with me great. If not it's not the end of the world.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by AtlasStrike
There is no law against relationships, the laws are about sexual consent. There is a VERY important difference.
Exactly. I've only seen her one time we never planned on doing anything like that until she turned eighteen so no law breaking here.
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Re: Completely devastated
Anyways i'm going to feed my baby girl i'll be back.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by evan385
Exactly. I've only seen her one time we never planned on doing anything like that until she turned eighteen so no law breaking here.
I missed that part.
So you have only her word on the abuse?
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by Skiploder
I missed that part.
So you have only her word on the abuse?
Yes, like I said just because I love her doesn't mean i'm a pedo and would do anything with her until she's eighteen. Well her mother admitted it to me. After the six months when her mother confronted me and informed me of her real age she asked me to stop seeing her until she turned eighteen. And I agreed but I had conditions. One of them was that she would stop being abusive and be the best mother that she can be. I wanted what was best for her and if not being together meant they would have a good relationship then it was worth it. I only wanted her to be happy. She even let us continue talking as long as we weren't dating and didn't talk about anything relationship related. Well she broke her end of the deal so I broke mine.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by evan385
I've already said in an early post that i'm going to back off until she turns eighteen. If she still wants to be with me great. If not it's not the end of the world.
How old will you be when she turns 18?
22?
If you're going to limit yourself to ONLY her, then you might miss out on some great opportunities and some great girls.
Just be open to anything and everything.
I've been in a long-distance relationship too, so I understand where you're coming from. However, we were "allowed" to be in a relationship (this is when the ex that I am talking about went to rehab in the states, he went to rehab after 1 1/2 years of the relationship), and we talked via letters and phone calls if they would allow him.
It sucked.
If you can't talk to her at all, and if you've only seen her once, that is not a relationship. It's barely anything, especially if her mother does not want any contact between you two.
I would seriously re-evaluate this situation and ask yourself if this is the kind of life (love life) you want to lead for the next 2 years at least.
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I smell Tuna. Lots and lots of tuna.
I also smell a psych students research paper.
What I do not smell is a single shred of genuine emotion. Lots of BS, a bit of scheming and a LOT of asskissing, but nothing of substance.
Well done, it seems you fooled some of the more caring of our happy members.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by CatandDiallo
How old will you be when she turns 18?
22?
If you're going to limit yourself to ONLY her, then you might miss out on some great opportunities and some great girls.
Just be open to anything and everything.
I've been in a long-distance relationship too, so I understand where you're coming from. However, we were "allowed" to be in a relationship (this is when the ex that I am talking about went to rehab in the states, he went to rehab after 1 1/2 years of the relationship), and we talked via letters and phone calls if they would allow him.
It sucked.
If you can't talk to her at all, and if you've only seen her once, that is not a relationship. It's barely anything, especially if her mother does not want any contact between you two.
I would seriously re-evaluate this situation and ask yourself if this is the kind of life (love life) you want to lead for the next 2 years at least.
For now but she has always found a way to talk to me. Also the no contact has only been short periods in the last 2 1/2 years. Other than that we talk ALL the time. Recently we talked for over twenty four hours straight and never ran out of things to say. Anyways I guess i'll give in a couple months and if she hasn't contacted me by then I guess it would be time to move on. Maybe i'll find a nice girl on BP.net who's my age. She doesn't like snakes at all and if I have to make that choice I would like to find a girl who's as passionate about ball pythons as I am :)
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by wilomn
I smell Tuna. Lots and lots of tuna.
I also smell a psych students research paper.
What I do not smell is a single shred of genuine emotion. Lots of BS, a bit of scheming and a LOT of asskissing, but nothing of substance.
Well done, it seems you fooled some of the more caring of our happy members.
Honestly I think you're full of BS. Why would I do that? You think this just because i'm not all boo-hoo? [Stuff] happens. She's always found a way to talk to me in the past and I was very upset at first doesn't mean I have to cry like a baby in front of everybody. (Moderators I did not call names and if a member that's been here that long can say i'm full of BS I would think it's not against the rules)
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What I think and what you think I think are not the same. You probably don't want to get in any more whizzing contests on this one so I'll give you the opportunity to bail. You know, like you threatened before you realized that no one was going to beg you to stay?
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by evan385
Recently we talked for over twenty four hours straight and never ran out of things to say.
That's kind of creepy/crazy.
Anyways, talking to someone on the phone, no matter how long you talk to them for will NEVER be the same as getting to know someone in real life/in person. Even if you think you know who she is by seeing her that one time, you don't.
You don't know what she's really like from day to day, and you will never know, seeing as things are going this way.
I'm just giving you some tough love here.
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Originally Posted by evan385
Anyways I guess i'll give in a couple months and if she hasn't contacted me by then I guess it would be time to move on. Maybe i'll find a nice girl on BP.net who's my age. She doesn't like snakes at all and if I have to make that choice I would like to find a girl who's as passionate about ball pythons as I am :)
Good. I'm glad that you're taking on this attitude now.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by evan385
(Moderators I did not call names and if a member that's been here that long can say i'm full of BS I would think it's not against the rules)
Certain acronyms are allowed, such as BS or WTF. In an ideal world, we wouldn't even need to allow that, but for the sake of the staff's sanity, we have to draw the line somewhere this side of ultra-strict. Typing out the curse word, even "bleeping" it with alternate symbols...is not allowed.
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This has been a great thread to help pass the night. We have had alleged child abuse, suicide attempts, drama, possible statutory rape, one of the most childish "Adults" I have seen post, death threats, outbursts, childish fantasies, lies, putting people on ban lists, removing them, Locking/Unlocking of thread. Complete turn around of beliefs from OP. Outlandish thought processes. It was extremely entertaining, thank you very much for this.
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Trolling or not, I think you need to cut your losses Evan and move it along.
Life is short, and just think how much more fullfilling it would be to spend that short amount of time with someone who is 1) an adult who can do what they want without their parents hovering over their heads, 2) has less baggage, and 3) who is financially/mentally/and emotionally capable of supporting themselves and adding to the relationship is positive ways.
Think how nice it would be to be able to see your girlfriend when you wanted, didn't have to worry about her parents ruling over what she and you say or do, could talk to her when you wanted to via whichever way you wanted, could go to certain events, places, and do certain activites with you without worrying about age or whatnot, and might even share the same passion/hobbies as you do (snakes) without having to worry about all this other stuff thats come along in this current relationship. You could focus on your relationship without tons of other baggage hovering about.
She could be everything you've ever wanted right now...but you might not see it that way forever. Hate to say it, but there's a LOT of girls out there and most likely there's one that's better suited to you who's just waiting to be found.
I do commend you for waiting until she's 18 though, good job.
Good luck.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by evan385
(Moderators I did not call names and if a member that's been here that long can say i'm full of BS I would think it's not against the rules)
Well, you got THAT one right.
That makes one.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by evan385
Exactly. I've only seen her one time we never planned on doing anything like that until she turned eighteen so no law breaking here.
Please correct me if I'm wrong, but I think the mom could allege you of breaking the law somehow (regarding to sex with minors) simply by being in a relationship with her. She could claim that you took advantage of her daughter sometime when you visit her, even if you hadn't... it's a really bad situation to be in.
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I feel like I just saw the five stages of grief occur within the space of a few hours. :confused:
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by meowmeowkazoo
I feel like I just saw the five stages of grief occur within the space of a few hours. :confused:
Hahaha this is great, made my night xD
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by meowmeowkazoo
I feel like I just saw the five stages of grief occur within the space of a few hours. :confused:
Also i'm over being sad about it I know she'll find a way to contact me. In fact her other friend told me that she would let her use her phone. But as i've said in an earlier post i'm seriously considering just waiting until she's eighteen before I talk to her again. A wise man once said "If you love it let it go." Or something like that. To me, right now, it will be worth the wait. But who knows if I will feel the same way later? My guess is that I will and nothing will change. But I could be wrong. We shall see.
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im so confused. So, you've been dating this girl for like 2-3 years, and you've only seen her once? And you are engaged? I didn't read the past 8 pages of this thread.
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Evan - you probably don't know who I am and may ignore me for not agreeing with what you want to hear, but I'm going to be blunt.
Girls like this are off their rocker. I see lots of red flags. She claims abuse, she has only seen you once, and you barely talk to each other for lack of communication device but sometimes talk constantly in short spans. Okay, I hate to say this, but it sounds more like she just wants attention when she wants it and then does her own thing during the rest of the time she isnt in contact with you. Not saying this is true, but from an outsider perspective, I see loads of BS coming from HER.
I have no doubt YOU love her, but it sounds more of an obsession. And that's okay, as I have been in this position too, but you need to realize it before you make a mistake. I honestly think she is taking advantage of you and your emotions.
My advice would be to, perhaps, stay in contact but lay off, like you said, until she is 18. If you guys can actually get together for a while, get to know each other in person, and figure out each other's lives together, then maybe it could work. But not until that happens. Internet relationships are hard. You love the person so much but then you meet them, you love them but they aren't what you expected half the time, and sometimes it just doesn't feel the same. I met my ex this way. It made for a bad situation.
Anyway, do what you please, but I personally would not be sticking around if I were you. I would move on.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by Jessica Loesch
Evan - you probably don't know who I am and may ignore me for not agreeing with what you want to hear, but I'm going to be blunt.
Girls like this are off their rocker. I see lots of red flags. She claims abuse, she has only seen you once, and you barely talk to each other for lack of communication device but sometimes talk constantly in short spans. Okay, I hate to say this, but it sounds more like she just wants attention when she wants it and then does her own thing during the rest of the time she isnt in contact with you. Not saying this is true, but from an outsider perspective, I see loads of BS coming from HER.
I have no doubt YOU love her, but it sounds more of an obsession. And that's okay, as I have been in this position too, but you need to realize it before you make a mistake. I honestly think she is taking advantage of you and your emotions.
My advice would be to, perhaps, stay in contact but lay off, like you said, until she is 18. If you guys can actually get together for a while, get to know each other in person, and figure out each other's lives together, then maybe it could work. But not until that happens. Internet relationships are hard. You love the person so much but then you meet them, you love them but they aren't what you expected half the time, and sometimes it just doesn't feel the same. I met my ex this way. It made for a bad situation.
Anyway, do what you please, but I personally would not be sticking around if I were you. I would move on.
At least you said nothing strictly negative :)
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Op is so "love blind" you could hit him with a 120mm cannon full of reality, logic, and common sense and it would have absolutely no effect.....
Makes any discussion or argument a moot point, especially when your ignoring everyone that says something you don't like.
Hope everything works out for you, and if it doesn't ... That you make it out with just a broken heart, not criminal charges or having to register as a sex offender for the rest of your life.
There are good people here giving you sound advice, don't be so dismissing of what their saying.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by Maixx
Op is so "love blind" you could hit him with a 120mm cannon full of reality, logic, and common sense and it would have absolutely no effect.....
Makes any discussion or argument a moot point, especially when your ignoring everyone that says something you don't like.
Hope everything works out for you, and if it doesn't ... That you make it out with just a broken heart, not criminal charges or having to register as a sex offender for the rest of your life.
There are good people here giving you sound advice, don't be so dismissing of what their saying.
Thank you I appreciate your input.
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Evan, I'm not here to be negative, I'm here to be supportive. And I really think you are in an unhealthy situation here. I hope you figure out what to do.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by Jessica Loesch
Evan, I'm not here to be negative, I'm here to be supportive. And I really think you are in an unhealthy situation here. I hope you figure out what to do.
Thank you for your concern Jessica and everyone else. I'm gonna think long and hard about this :)
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You'd already be dead if it was my daughter. Call Springer. He enjoys seeing this stuff! Not on BP.They ought to give you 30 yrs. ! Just my opinion
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Re: Completely devastated
Wow a lot has been said the last 8 pages so i'll try not to drag this out too much, but I hope that you get what you need out of these posts, you sound like you are starting to come around in the last couple posts I just hope it's not just to get people off you back cause you don't like the views the other posters have on your situation, like Wilomn said.
The younger me would have felt sorry for you and understood your situation (had something similar), after all it's only three years right.
The high school me would have thought you were a pansy and tell you forget the mom, and either go out and bang as many chicks as you can or do whatever it takes to get the girl.
The 28 year old married (going on 9 years) and has a young daughter me, thinks you are crazy immature and thinks you really need to think long and hard about the situation before doing anything, be grateful nothing legally has happened yet(I hope) and get your life squared away first and think of your future man.
What I mean is the only thing in life that is a 100% guaranteed is change, for the good and the bad. Don't take it so hard if it does not work out you are still young.
good luck.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by CatandDiallo
That's kind of creepy/crazy.
Hardly. When my mom met her current husband, they'd talk for hours on end. I recall one Saturday afternoon, we went over to his house. While I had fun goofing off with his daughter, mom and him talked, and talked, and talked..Until about 6 am the next morning. I've done the same thing with really close friends.
So no, not creepy/crazy.
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I really don`t see how this got so much attention .... i`ve seen posts of one of a kind snakes that dont get this many replies!!!!!!
But as a father myself of an almost 16 y/o boy .... if i found him in this situation i would do my best to talk him outta it. I`ve been down the long distance relationship road ... and it was the toughest relationship of my life. Thought at the time it was great ... looking back at it ... not so much! I think you should take a long step back and reavailuate your situation ... i think your in for some hurt down the road.
just my 2 cents!!!!
John
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Re: Completely devastated
I was a teenager once. If she had the same love for you, she would find a way to talk to you. My mother did not always approve of the people that I dated growing up. I even went as far as skipping my High School Graduation to visit my boyfriend in jail because I was mad at my mom. She had cut all of my hair off the night before because I told her that he liked my long hair. I thought that she was the meanest mom on the planet. I went off to college with 1" long hair and looked like a boy. :rofl:
I was young, dumb, and deeply in love. Long story short 2 years later he died of an overdose after he stole my bank card and drained my account. It took a few years to forgive my mom, but she was only looking out for my best interest.
My mom always told me that at 18 you look for different qualities in a person. That changes in your early and late twenties. I agree 100% with her. People change as they get older. I know that I sure did.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by AtlasStrike
There is no law against relationships, the laws are about sexual consent. There is a VERY important difference.
Actually, it is nowhere near that black and white.... So much so that the laws can even be broken in a phone conversation, text message, or internet chat room. Trust me, judging from the things the OP has said, the line has already been crossed.
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Originally Posted by wilomn
I smell Tuna. Lots and lots of tuna.
Well done, it seems you fooled some of the more caring of our happy members.
I had suspected as much... but any time there is a possible child victim in a sex crime it is better to error on the side of caution.
It appears as though the OP has at least taken the time to review his local laws.. this would explain his new stance on how he will back off until she is 18... and how he now claims that nothing has ever happened.
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Originally Posted by evan385
Exactly. I've only seen her one time we never planned on doing anything like that until she turned eighteen so no law breaking here.
I have sat back and not commented, buy now I have to. You can get mad at me I honestly don't care but I'm not trying to be rude when I say this. I'm simply asking ok.
You say you have only met this girl one time. One time you have actually seen this girl. Correct? So how do you know she is who you think she is. You say you guys talk all the time ect.... Do you honestly think shes only talking to you.... That she's not with another guy..... To only have met her once how do you know she's not lying about everything? So she says her mom beats her and treats her like crap....but how do you know?!?! Honestly how do you know? Or when she says her mom won't let her talk to you. How do you know it's not that she's met someone els and just dosnt want to tell you. Hence the not talking for 3 months then she gets ahold of you ( AKA that relationship ended so your the one she can run to) You are a 20 yr old guy how is there not a girl your age. I honestly find it hard to believe a 20 yr old being devoted to a 16 yr old. Why would you chase a 16 yr old GIRL around when you could have a 20 yr old WOMAN? I may be wrong when I say this because I don't know either of you but do you really think shes gonna wait for the next two years. Do you really think she loves you. She's only 16..... Like someone els said it's probably more of a " I'm dating an older guy" thing. How can you have what you say to be a strong relationship and connection when you've only met once? I'm asking this as a serious question, I'm not trying to be a jerk. In all honesty how can you feel so strong for someone you have only seen once?
As for the age thing. I know if one of our daughters at 16 was with a guy that was 20... Well let's just say they wouldn't be for long. If she was 18 and he was 22 or even 26-28 ok she's of age to make that choice. There is a 12 yr age difference between us ( Scott and Becky )and no one liked the idea. But we didn't listen and we are glad we didnt. Neither of us have ever been this happy.
Anther question is, how does she feel about it? Is she wanting to wait also or is that your plan?
Honestly this is starting to sound like a troll.
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Re: Completely devastated
I'm not going to make any more comments...good day.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by Amon Ra Reptiles
Honestly this is starting to sound like a troll.
x2
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Originally Posted by Raptor
Hardly. When my mom met her current husband, they'd talk for hours on end. I recall one Saturday afternoon, we went over to his house. While I had fun goofing off with his daughter, mom and him talked, and talked, and talked..Until about 6 am the next morning. I've done the same thing with really close friends.
So no, not creepy/crazy.
I've done that too, many times. Overnight talks.
But 24 hours? STRAIGHT?! How many people can actually say they have done this? I hope it's an exaggeration.
PS: You picked out that, out of my useful advice in that post. Sigh.
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Originally Posted by CatandDiallo
I've done that too, many times. Overnight talks.
But 24 hours? STRAIGHT?! How many people can actually say they have done this? I hope it's an exaggeration.
PS: You picked out that, out of my useful advice in that post. Sigh.
Well. I've done about 20 hours straight. At that point, my brain had shut down and we were telling stupid jokes via voice chat on MSN.
On that note, I won't say much else on this topic x) I'll end up getting jumped myself.
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Wait...Do I hear banjos???
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Re: Completely devastated
Wow, I can't beleve I read all ten pages.
Instead of looking for your next 'girlfriend' on BP.net or anywhere else online, turn off the PC and talk a walk outside. The sunlight will do you a lot of good.
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Re: Completely devastated
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Originally Posted by lasweetswan
*eats popcorn*
LOL, a good 'ol BP.net soap. gotta love em.
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