Quote Originally Posted by CatandDiallo View Post
How old will you be when she turns 18?
22?

If you're going to limit yourself to ONLY her, then you might miss out on some great opportunities and some great girls.

Just be open to anything and everything.

I've been in a long-distance relationship too, so I understand where you're coming from. However, we were "allowed" to be in a relationship (this is when the ex that I am talking about went to rehab in the states, he went to rehab after 1 1/2 years of the relationship), and we talked via letters and phone calls if they would allow him.
It sucked.

If you can't talk to her at all, and if you've only seen her once, that is not a relationship. It's barely anything, especially if her mother does not want any contact between you two.

I would seriously re-evaluate this situation and ask yourself if this is the kind of life (love life) you want to lead for the next 2 years at least.
For now but she has always found a way to talk to me. Also the no contact has only been short periods in the last 2 1/2 years. Other than that we talk ALL the time. Recently we talked for over twenty four hours straight and never ran out of things to say. Anyways I guess i'll give in a couple months and if she hasn't contacted me by then I guess it would be time to move on. Maybe i'll find a nice girl on BP.net who's my age. She doesn't like snakes at all and if I have to make that choice I would like to find a girl who's as passionate about ball pythons as I am