That's kind of creepy/crazy.
Anyways, talking to someone on the phone, no matter how long you talk to them for will NEVER be the same as getting to know someone in real life/in person. Even if you think you know who she is by seeing her that one time, you don't.
You don't know what she's really like from day to day, and you will never know, seeing as things are going this way.
I'm just giving you some tough love here.
Good. I'm glad that you're taking on this attitude now.