Completely devastated

[Amon Ra Reptiles]

Exactly. I've only seen her one time we never planned on doing anything like that until she turned eighteen so no law breaking here.

I have sat back and not commented, buy now I have to. You can get mad at me I honestly don't care but I'm not trying to be rude when I say this. I'm simply asking ok.
You say you have only met this girl one time. One time you have actually seen this girl. Correct? So how do you know she is who you think she is. You say you guys talk all the time ect.... Do you honestly think shes only talking to you.... That she's not with another guy..... To only have met her once how do you know she's not lying about everything? So she says her mom beats her and treats her like crap....but how do you know?!?! Honestly how do you know? Or when she says her mom won't let her talk to you. How do you know it's not that she's met someone els and just dosnt want to tell you. Hence the not talking for 3 months then she gets ahold of you ( AKA that relationship ended so your the one she can run to) You are a 20 yr old guy how is there not a girl your age. I honestly find it hard to believe a 20 yr old being devoted to a 16 yr old. Why would you chase a 16 yr old GIRL around when you could have a 20 yr old WOMAN? I may be wrong when I say this because I don't know either of you but do you really think shes gonna wait for the next two years. Do you really think she loves you. She's only 16..... Like someone els said it's probably more of a " I'm dating an older guy" thing. How can you have what you say to be a strong relationship and connection when you've only met once? I'm asking this as a serious question, I'm not trying to be a jerk. In all honesty how can you feel so strong for someone you have only seen once?
As for the age thing. I know if one of our daughters at 16 was with a guy that was 20... Well let's just say they wouldn't be for long. If she was 18 and he was 22 or even 26-28 ok she's of age to make that choice. There is a 12 yr age difference between us ( Scott and Becky )and no one liked the idea. But we didn't listen and we are glad we didnt. Neither of us have ever been this happy.
Anther question is, how does she feel about it? Is she wanting to wait also or is that your plan?
Honestly this is starting to sound like a troll.