I have noticed that many of the new members to this site, including myself, go through a "phase" where they feel they are at a point that they would love to give advice and help people, but aren't clear on the general rules of giving advice. I have made this mistake myself and felt "attacked" when really other members were voicing their opinions enthusiastically because something that has been said is indeed very, very wrong.
KJlegend: When you are giving advice to new members, you must assume they know very little, not because they are stupid, but because giving advanced advice to someone who doesn't know the basics is dangerous. They can easily misinterpret what you have said and put their animal in a dangerous situation.
Giving advice on what you 'think' can happen is not always needed. If you are giving an opinion that is not from personal experience, a newbie to bp's or reptiles may not take that into account.
Also, keep an eye on who you are contradicting, not because this is a popularity contest, but because admins and moderators have those titles because they are well learned and respected here, and NEVER give dangerous advice. Many of our bp.net veterans fall into this category as well.
I am still new here myself and I am learning everyday, just like you will. Please don't feel we are mad at you, we in no way are. We just would like to clarify how you should be careful about giving advice.
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