Quote Originally Posted by doyle033 View Post
well they were sold to me as the spider being the female, but the pastel seems to behave more like a female to me. eats like a cow, whereas the spider is being a bit finicky as of the last two weeks. they are both over 1100g, so even if by some weird twist the smaller one is the female, i should still be ok, but the spider is a bit bigger.

the pastel was a bit more slower to start as a baby but he seems to have caught up.

and all kidding aside, the breeder guarenteed the sex. but with my luck, they would be backwards, lol
I have found that it is not possible to say that females eat more than males. I have one male, my pastel, who never misses a meal and eats like a starved chicken. Godiva, one of my females, eats all of the time but never has the strong, immediate feeding response that Ruger has. They are each just individualistic.