If you are worried about heat coming from your hand you could run it under cold water for a while and use tongs to hold the middle of the rodent as this is the orientation they would be in the wild, if he doesn't take it just leave overnight, also I think fixing your temperatures will really help and possibly completely solve the problem.
The lights may be a little bright, just use light from outside the enclosure for a little and see if he changes his personality.
Sorry if I missed this but were did you get him from, breeder or a pet store? One month is quite young as most breeders give 6 consecutive feeds and make sure they are over 100 grams, do you know if this was the case?
(Also sidenote I have my 3 month old that I got 5 days ago in a 120 gallon tank (this is what rspca says is the bare minimum for an adult) it works perfectly fine for her and she just ate today although remember that all snakes have different personalities and needs some will need small dark enclosures at first.)
You could try covering the front for a few days with a blanket, this really helped calm my baby down on the first day.

TBH young snakes really shouldn't have long hunger strikes/frequent food refusals, something is either wrong with him, or your husbandry - fix your temps, and if you are having inconsistent humidity cover part of the mesh top, also CLUTTER CLUTTER CLUTTER including some above the snake so he feels less exposed and lots on the ground.
Hope he eats soon for you!