Thank you all for the kind words. That honestly means a lot to me.

As to the gene questions. I do have a theory... First keep in mind that I will not be using any technical terms at all because I do not know them.

So what I think is going on. I do not think that there is a super spider at all and I also do not think it is lethal or anything like that. When the egg and sperm come together that is what makes the baby right? What I think happens here is one of 2 things. 1 being that an egg and sperm both carrying the spider gene are not "attracted" to each other, meaning the sperm will just pass that egg up and fertilize one that is normal. Or the second option I feel is possible is that if the egg and sperm both carry the spider gene then only one of them will be displayed genetically, essentially if both mom and pop pass along the same gene to one baby that would normally result in a super we get a spider that is just a normal spider... Hard to explain my thinking on the second one I guess you could say that one spider gene can only be present at one time and if 2 come into contact with eachother one wipes the other out leaving only 1 spider gene in the dna and a blank spot, the blank spot could then be "filled" or replaced with a normal gene.

I said both of these because honestly we do not know what the dna of a snake is able to do. It could heal its self in a way. I also think that the worst wobbles that we see in the spiders could possibly come from a line that was derived from spider x spider breedings... Possible I think so.