I'm going to try to phrase my response carefully, because I don't want to come across as combative when I really just want to understand what you're saying. I'm sure a lot has changed since my last genetics course, and a lot of what I learned is probably outdated, but I'd appreciate some clarification on some of your points.
Where does your info for slugs having never been fertile come from?
Surely if they are in fact "super spiders" that didn't make it past cellular division (or possibly not very far into it), they have received genetic material from both parents?
Although things like skin pigment are not visible in the early stages of development, the genes for it are there. The genetic material that determines the morph is there from the point of meiosis. However I believe you are correct in stating that the mutation (assuming that in your statement mutation is synonymous with morph and any associated defects) can cause problems later in development as those genes are activated during the embryos development.