Unless OP can prove he pays for the electric bill, since his snakes use them, he pays for the water he showers with, pays for the internet he uses to make thread posts, pays for the space he lives in, and pays for the gas on his vehicles......
Then and only then will OP not owe his parents anything....
And going to youth group doesn't mean you are going to get brainwashed... OP seems to know what he believes in...
im 1000% sure OP wouldn't get brainwashed