Sorry I also did not read the previous pages but I will offer a bit of advice. Simply put, you are in a coercive situation, you really do not have many options. I would simply do what they tell you to so you can keep the animals but don't try to justify what they are doing now or later in your life. Once you have more independance (not the threat of losing your animals) then you can address these issues with them but until then just try to minimize confrontations.