This is something that irks me.
I am a very good, kind and compassionate person and was raised completely, 100% free of religion. I am very open-minded, and accept EVERYONE for who they are (including all spectrums of sexualities, genders, races, etc).
I did not need an oppressive religion to tell me how to treat people correctly (in my opinion, many religions don't teach that any way - mainly directed towards certain groups of people), and I'm a grown woman and I'm doing quite dandy!