Here's your first problem. You're asking for advice from a bunch of strangers on an internet forum about snakes.
Go to the gym. Lift some weights to get big. Or if you're fat go running and don't eat so much. These will give you confidence and make you look more attractive.
Here's the second thing that makes you attractive to women $$$$. Get a job and make money. Go to school to get a better job and make more money so you can afford more women.
That's pretty much all there is to women. They like muscles and money. And shiny things like diamonds. But those come from the money.