Completely devastated

[evan385]

How about this Evan:

If her mom is really that abusive, the best thing you can do for her is to encourage her to report that abuse.

Becoming friends with a person who allegedly abuses her isn't going to help her one bit. Helping to stop the abuse or getting her to counselor who can give her tools to deal with her upbringing and her suicide talk is the best thing you can do for her.

She's had other boyfriends in the past and she's actually from what she told me held a knife to her throat and threatened to kill her if the boyfriend came to see her. I would hope that it will stop and they can move on. I don't want her to hate her mother, I want them to have a good healthy relationship and I want her to like me. But I realize that this will probably never happen and that she does need to report it. Thank you. I am not a pedophile, I honestly thought she was my age when we met. I hope we can speak on better terms later on and I am truly sorry for my harsh words toward you.