That's exactly what my ears were. Og first hole, 2g second hole.
It was probably the worst mistake. My 2gs have gone back relitively normal after having them out for about a year 1/2. My Ogs have not gone back fully, and now I can't wear normal earrings.
I wear earrings underneath my plugs all the time. I also wear hoops through my eyelets. This is not my picture but this is what it looks like. You can also buy some of these and pierce them. One of these tricks might work for you.