I'm a bit late as well.

Everyone here has told you the truth and given good advise, so I won't add to it.

I will say this, after more bad experiences with guys who were jerks and users than I can count, I did find the one for me. I've been with Kyle for 20 years now, and I love him more than anything.

Sure we have our ups and downs, all couples do. But after so many years, his heart beats in my chest and mine is his. We live for each other and with each other, and no one can change that.

Please don't loose hope, the right guy is out there, and when the time is right, he'll find you. In the mean time, tell this looser not to let the door hit him in the butt on they way out it.

Gale