Sorry, I wasn't thinking about you nor about anyone else with an alcohol issue...I was talking specifically about that guy...a guy who made bad decisions...
and yes, alcohol is yet another bad decision, but I was actually responding to THIS description by the OP:
So Craig, please don't put words in my mouth & don't make something personal that isn't, okay? When it came to caring for that snake, the guy was a "loser", but so were the well-heeled
people in Palm Springs that I got a tick-covered ball python from many years ago, and as far as I know they weren't drinkers, just people who got pets as toys & didn't take care of them.
Maybe I shouldn't call anyone a loser but I'm human & I care passionately about animal abuse. His drinking was incidental, not the reason for the label...but do stay sober, we all need you.