My mother turned off the heat mat!! :'(

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fair enough, this thread started like that thread with the kid who claimed his parents wouldn't let him feed his snakes in my book, so I said it like it was. Guess I'll bow out now since I seem to be on the minority end of things. good day gentlemen and ladies lol.

Don't feel too bad, a lot of people probably just don't want to get involved but I'm with you. You just don't go bashing your mom publicly, makes you look like an immature teenager that doesn't appreciate what the parents have gone through for them. You don't like what your parents are doing, take a hint, it's time to be a responsible adult and move out. I went through the same crap when I got out of college, my dad was always bumping heads with me for no good reason. I got the hint and moved out. The years after that my father and I had the best relationship we probably ever had. It was just time to grow up. Op has parents that love him I'm sure but they are probably ready for him to move on but can't kick him out.

On the other hand, I do agree with some of the others, the mother is completely invading privacy and handling things the wrong way. Yes it is her house so she has the right to do what she wants but there is a much better/healthier way to go about it. Simply talk about what's going on.

My take is both Op and mother are in the wrong, Mother shouldn't invade privacy, op can move out but shouldn't bash mother publicly.

Interesting thread to say the least, may have got off topic but the new topic is more interesting anyway lol.