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    What to do when you are totally bummed

    So, when life isn't going your way, you feel like you are losing control of everything....what do you do? I used to play a bit of warhammer 40k but the company that makes that game screwed it up so I don't enjoy it. Same with playing WoW. It just seems like my life has taken a horrible turn and I can't cope with it right now. I have nothing to relieve stress. My love life is fallin apart. I am going to be a dad and never wanted kids. My snake breeding plans are falling apart due to money. What the heck do you guys do? How can you have fun with no money?




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    Re: What to do when you are totally bummed

    Cars are one of my passions, so I can hop in and go for a short drive somewhere nice and get everything off my mind. Music also helps me a lot, as well as partner stunting. Maybe try working out? Go for a run outside with head phones, or lift weights somewhere.

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    Re: What to do when you are totally bummed

    Sorry to hear that things are overwhelming. That is never fun...

    For me, I go somewhere where this is no one, I see no one, I talk to no one, and I just listen and sit and be alone with me outside of my usual space.

    A park, museum, library, gallery... wherever. Takes a bit to get the internal dialogue to die off, but when it does, man is it blissful.

    Not sure that would be your thing, but regardless, I hope things take an upswing for you and that you are able to cope with the changes ahead.

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    Re: What to do when you are totally bummed

    You can have tons of fun with no money, I left my fiance last July and haven't been a date since then (keeping it simple), I'll tell you like I tell my son, birth control is free so there is no excuse, but I love kids you'll make a cool dad, keep your chin up ok
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    Re: What to do when you are totally bummed

    I go on the computer and normally watch youtube videos
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    Re: What to do when you are totally bummed

    I'm sort of in that same place. I've been doing a lot of reading, writing, and going to the gym. I also do a lot of baking. O_o I don't really eat what I make, but it gives me a serious boost when someone else devours my cookies or cheesecake or whatever.
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    Re: What to do when you are totally bummed

    Quote Originally Posted by llovelace View Post
    You can have tons of fun with no money, I left my fiance last July and haven't been a date since then (keeping it simple), I'll tell you like I tell my son, birth control is free so there is no excuse, but I love kids you'll make a cool dad, keep your chin up ok
    Lets just say that the Nuva ring birth control AND Trojan are both FAIL in my eyes right now. What are the odds? 99.9 my butt. Really maybe I should get my het pieds up to breeding size, with the odds I hit, I think I would probably have a clutch of all pieds! As it stands, I can't afford to get mates for my corn snakes, or my new rack project bleh.... just bummed and ranting, sorry guys and gals.




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    Re: What to do when you are totally bummed

    Quote Originally Posted by Melicious View Post
    I'm sort of in that same place. I've been doing a lot of reading, writing, and going to the gym. I also do a lot of baking. O_o I don't really eat what I make, but it gives me a serious boost when someone else devours my cookies or cheesecake or whatever.

    Yeah well, a batch of cookies would cheer me up right now. You can keep the nasty cheesecake




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    Re: What to do when you are totally bummed

    Quote Originally Posted by stormwulf133 View Post
    Yeah well, a batch of cookies would cheer me up right now. You can keep the nasty cheesecake
    Aww. Well, if you're ever in town, I'll bake. ^_^ Just let me know your favorite cookies.
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    Re: What to do when you are totally bummed

    Quote Originally Posted by stormwulf133 View Post
    Lets just say that the Nuva ring birth control AND Trojan are both FAIL in my eyes right now. What are the odds? 99.9 my butt. Really maybe I should get my het pieds up to breeding size, with the odds I hit, I think I would probably have a clutch of all pieds! As it stands, I can't afford to get mates for my corn snakes, or my new rack project bleh.... just bummed and ranting, sorry guys and gals.

    I have 2 pill babies, my son is 21 and my daughter 19 I got the crappy odds also lol they are my pals though.
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