Can you house a male with afemale?

[Stewart_Reptiles]

Let’s see if I can resume the situation

You did not do any research prior to purchasing yours animals or did very little
You were not prepared for a new animal
You do not quarantine
Your vet thinks RI cannot be passed on to other snakes
You are attributing human emotions to snakes
You think you will be able to prevent your female from being gravid.
You do not listen to advice from people who have experience (Pet stores do not count)

Did I miss anything?

Now to the question should they be house together the answer is NO.

BP are not social they do not have friends, they will dominate one another leading to stress and feeding issues etc etc etc

BP do not benefit from being house together, YOU do, you have already jeopardized the health of your snake by bringing a new animal without any quarantining it, so how about trying to do the right thing now? (Not what YOU feel they would like but what THEY need)

Also I would also recommend you to change vet.