Quote Originally Posted by Ladydragon View Post
so sorry you are going through all this crap. firstly, let me give you props for not retaliating. People like this "Lori" person do not understand reasoning nor do they obey laws, they feel justified that they were wronged and are above the law and if you react back to them they feel vindicated in their own stupid actions.

As for hiring a lawyer I highly recommend it. If you feel that getting a lawyer is costly, here is a link to a website for legal insurance. http://www.prepaidlegal.com/. Basically you pay a monthly fee (depends on the state you live in) and you have lawyers on retainer. Check out the site, give them a call and ask what is the best package, recourse of action for you. It cannot hurt. And as was adviced, each time they harass you, whether verbally or trespass on your property call the cops. Eventually they will get tired of you calling and start to do something. Also, call your local news station. I'm sure all news stations have some kind of "Shame on you" segment. See what public attention might do to stop her. Bring to the publics attention that there has been a restraining order that was violated and ignored by a judge (yes name the judge). I've been through a restraining order against my stepfather and it was not pretty.

Stay safe and avoid this nut case as much as possible. Hopefully it will be resolved before something serious happens. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
thank you very much for the info you gave me. we're in the process of lookin around for a lawyer and if we cant afford any we will look into the link you provided.

also, an update, we went to go get a used tire yesterday, the guy looked at it and said the spot i was pointing to might of been from a sharp rock as it wasn't leaking air from there. it was the seam, he said it was from just sitting in the driveway, he re-did the seal and replaces the valve thingie. i feel bad assuming the daughter did it, but after everything thats happened, why wouldn't we jump to that conclusion! it still doesn't explain WHY she was in our driveway on that side of the car and in our driveway YET again!