SUCCESS!! Thanks for all the great suggestions, I put a rat pup in there with her and she took it! I didn't get to see her strike but I peaked in before I left the room and all I could see was a tail, i hope she killed it first. It is a small meal but it's a start. I am so glad i didn't have to assist feed.
Loftlizard, she has lost about 100g since she laid, she is looking very bad around 1200g, her eggs are on day 45.
JenH, thanks for your concern, I know your just playing devils advocate but it still feels like a kick to the groin. It's not about more eggs its about getting my girl back eating, i have seen rescues in better shape. I pulled her from breeding when she stopped eating because I thought she would be too small at 1600g, she produced 2 110g eggs, a boob egg that is probably not going to make it and a slug. If I could have stopped her from producing I would but I couldn't, she went ahead and laid eggs anyways.
Well I am going back to see if she will take another one..
Thanks for everyone's input.
Richard