If we ever had kids, (which we will not.), but IF it was possible, they would have his last name.

As for rings, he doesn't wear one, as he has swollen knuckles due to a medical issue, and I don't wear one, cause I hate jewelry! (Ain't I a keeper?)

These things don't matter a whit to us, but we're pretty laid back and keep to ourselves.

I can totally see how these things are important to others, and I'm all for it! What's best for one couple is not what's best for another. We all just have to find the perfect balance.