My wife took my name, we never really discussed it. I have to say the first time I called her work and heard her voicemail with my last name it was a real honor and made me very proud/happy.

I know several professional women that have built up a reputation and clientel and decided to keep their maiden name so as not to loose or confuse business contacts. Which makes sense to me.

The reality is if the the relationship is strong a name isnt gonna make a difference.

"A rose by any other name would smell as sweet"