Anyone ever had engagment break off?

[Big Gunns]

No disrespect but this advice really doesn't sit right with me for a few reasons.
1. Playing mind games with somebody who's already severely depressed is never a good idea.
2. If she was seeing somebody else, she'd probably be in pretty good spirits.
3. I very much doubt that she's a good enough actress to fool her fiance and everyone else around her into thinking she's depressed just to spare his feelings.

No "disrespect taken.

Hope you don't take any with my response.


Suggesting he doesn't "play mind games"... coming from a woman. The Queens of "mind games".


We have no idea the real deal here, but in my experience when this sort of thing happens, there is usually somebody else. I'd say 9 times out of ten. I was just trying to help him figure that out quickly. Don't waste a bunch of time sitting around waiting. It may be sneaky, but it works.

The only reason we know she's depressed is because he says she is, when in fact like Jas says, he seems to be the one "depressed".

A woman can fool any man that's too blind to open his eyes and see the real truth.

I think this is a sad thing to even suggest he do.If her and her family are having hard times then doing something as childish as this could prove fatal in the long run.

I could have not said it any better .

If you give her time and space to work on her personal problems then maybe the 2 of you can see how things go down the road.I will tell you like i have been told numerous times "if its meant to be it shall be" .Keep being her freind and that will show her you really care about her

"Fatal"? How is that?


Now let's say that she truly is "depressed". Maybe you should take a real good look at her and decide if you want to take that plunge and marry her anyway. This may be harsh, but you only get one life, don't waste it with someone that is constantly down. You're not married yet, and I say it's a good thing for you if everything you said is true.