Rob,
It is your choice to sell to whom you want to. No one is stopping you, and no one is asking you to do otherwise.
I think the BOI is a great tool when used properly, but I also think it can sully some peoples reputations very badly with undue force.
You just have to take it all with a grain of salt. And also know that there may be more to the story than what is posted on the BOI.
Edit: Also, your reputation should be the top prority for you to be worried about if you plan on being forthright and a good breeder.