For the mothers of the group.

[Reptilian]

Life is mysterious and complicated and complex! Birth control can be used to prevent unplanned pregnancies....since this was not the case, maybe you guys really do want a baby now!
Babies bring happiness. Period.
You have a stable relationship...you're engaged...you both want children...sounds like your baby (if you are pregnant) is very lucky and will be completely loved!
Find the positive and the joy in this and exploit it!! All is the way it is meant to be. You are terrific and your fiancee is terrific and you may be incubating something very very special!!! No probs; except for the 9 month hatch time!

Thank you soo much.

Now another question. Since I am late, can the dr. tell right away if I am pregnant? Or does it have to work like the pregnancy tests and be x amount of days after my cycle? I was never very good at keeping track of that sort of thing, but I do know I am late.