Yes...do so. Get a scale and check for yourself. And get both your snakes to a vet and have them checked out by a professional. Check their sexes (have him SHOW you what he's doing and why he names it male or female....that way you won't have to say, "I THINK he did such and such..." or "He MIGHT have popped it...." And have him check for parasites in both animals.
You've gotten yourself all worked up in a tizzy without having any real trustworthy information to begin with, apparently. As I said earlier...calm down...make a list of the things you should do to get all this sorted out...then start taking those steps. There's no big rush. You've waited this long to grow her up...and they've both still got some growing up to do anyhow. No hurry here...just work things out.