Hotshot - tone it down. We can only go on what you've posted in the past and your posts are inconsistent.
In two years, you've never taken this snake to a scale to monitor her weight? She should be positively emaciated if she's lost 1/2 her body weight in that time. Have you taken her to a vet to see why she's lost such significant weight?
Also, who has POSITIVELY sexed her as a male to get you this up in arms?