Was this an adoption snake from petsmart? I have never heard of them giving feeding charts and such.I suggest you cease handling her until she starts eating on a normal basis.I say this because every time she refuses to eat you handle her and it add more stress.Totaly leave her alone for a full week then try to feed her.If she refuses try after another week.In my experiance ball pythons can tend to be stuuborn whenever you change anything on them.Keep us posted