Snake moments

[Jenn]

You are trying to approach an illogical problem with a logical solution. We all have fears. Most people are more afraid of speaking in public than they are of death. Sure, it doesn't make sense but that's the way fear works. And more important to your situation, everyone deals with their fears differently. I am afraid of heights, water, and snakes. So I got my pilots license, became a white water raft guide, and bought a snake.

Your mom doesn't sound like the type of person who will be swayed by logic or your power point presentation, (although I think you may have a future in business)!!! If I were you I would focus on her heart rather than her head. Get her a little gift!!! Do the dishes for her!!! Then sit down with her and tell her that you understand and respect her fear of snakes but that this is something you feel quite strongly about, let her know how much this means to you. She will probably still say no but she will respect your approach and it may bring you one step closer.

Good luck sweetie.

[martyb]

thank you for the replies and i might try the heart way now ive run out of head ways

and thanks for encouragement



any more

[K80tik]

I did suggest this but she insist she isnt scared of them she just doesnt like them which is why im going to do a powerpoint with facts my point of view and other experiences. Good idea?

OMG and your 15? i just thought id say that! maybe you should put my sig on your powerpoint slide. maybe she will understand it and help her rethink. im currently taking biology for stupid college *wanna be something when i grow up *, there was a discussion and some lady was like.. omg snakes. you have kids! blah blah blah blah. 1st thing she said is "arent you scared that they will kill your kids" i pretty much quoted the sig. i also said, its awesome to watch my little 3yr old wanna grab my snakes, play with them, touch them, hold them etc. then a full size adult comes by and runs in the corner and is like "KEEP IT AWAY"... pretty much what the sig says. but i laugh cause its what TV and society puts in your head. i told her, snakes are not the devil, they did not kill adam and eve, their ''forked tongue" is not devilish.. etc..
Tell your parents the truth. Snakes require by far more TLC then a dog or cat. Its a great learning experience/hobby if done properly. a snake is less willing to bite compared to any other animal. when my daughters get old enough, they too will be handling/cleaning and caring for my babys. 1 reason i love my snakes so much besides everything else is that when i get off of work. i go to their room, sit down in a chair and go through each cage and hold, change water, clean and handle. With my job being so stupid most of the time, it takes my mind of work, worries, stress and everything. when im with my snakes im happy and i concentrate on them. GL with what happens with your moms decision and i hope for the best.

[MelissaFlipski]

I call holding our BP "snake therapy" and my husband calls it "getting my fix." It's healthier than drugs or alcohol, safer than anonymous sex, you don't end up pregnant, and you are at home where your parents know where you are. That should do it.

Good luck.

[K80tik]

I call holding our BP "snake therapy" and my husband calls it "getting my fix." It's healthier than drugs or alcohol, safer than anonymous sex, you don't end up pregnant, and you are at home where your parents know where you are. That should do it.

Good luck.

HHAHAHAHAHA.... anonymous .... HAHAHA.. thats nice! thats therapy in itself but i will keep this PG-13

[martyb]

thanks for the support i definitely be using the signature and the going out late doing bad things or at home with the snake/s

[kc261]

Another thing you could point out to your mom (if she hasn't noticed already) is that this isn't a passing thing with you. You've been a member on these forums for 2 months now. I know for lots of parents the concern with their child getting a pet of any sort is that the parent will be the one who ends up taking care of it after the child gets bored.

Another thing is to show her that you have thought into the future. Do you have a plan for your snake for when you go off to college?

[MelissaFlipski]

You can also market it as an educational experience. Are you thinking of studying zoology, animal husbandry, or veterinary science?

Do you currently go to reptile shows, breeders' studios, and pet stores to get your "fix"?

[martyb]

well i have only been into (i mean obsessed) for three months (Ive always been intrigued) but with no people in my household that takes an interest in reptiles = no shows

i am going to try and get a part time job at a pet store but not having anyone to get my fix from Ive sort of turned to this site for my fix lolz

as for college i had enough of school so no college for me but my Gcse's are going well(English) im predicted 8 A-C grades which is bassically what is useful for getting a job (just Incas you didn't know)

[martyb]

Anybody?