This sucks guys

[Armiyana]

I think the fact that you do worry and care is what will make you better as a breeder.

Yes, things happen that can be out of our control. But when one of your top priorities is the health and wellbeing of your animals, that's important. Sometimes sadly the best options aren't ones we want to think about. So while you do say toughen up, still keep that empathy that you show here too.

Às an aside...I had a discussion with a breeder who's incubator busted midway through a couple clutches. A few of the hatchlings across 6 clutches had kinks. Most were very minor. One was a gorgeous little albino gal. Hers were worse, but she still got out of her egg and had her first shed. Even managed her first meal. But we both agreed that even though she seemed like she may be 'okay' now, the risks of her ovulating and throwing slugs as an adult would be a painful death sentence.
You will need to make these hard decisions. But you'll be making them with the best intentions.

[JJpeep]

Thank you. I feel that your comments help me move forward. In the past I hid my grief when something animal wise made me so sad. But I feel the older I get, I find I do need to let it out. It helps you work through it better, at least for me. I will definitely keep the empathy, but I do agree making decisions to help the animal along, like putting them down in situations you mentioned is the best for them as well. I would totally be prepared to do so. I wouldn't want to see an animal in pain. That is always tough. Thanks for listening to me vent and helping me along with words.

I think the fact that you do worry and care is what will make you better as a breeder.

Yes, things happen that can be out of our control. But when one of your top priorities is the health and wellbeing of your animals, that's important. Sometimes sadly the best options aren't ones we want to think about. So while you do say toughen up, still keep that empathy that you show here too.

Às an aside...I had a discussion with a breeder who's incubator busted midway through a couple clutches. A few of the hatchlings across 6 clutches had kinks. Most were very minor. One was a gorgeous little albino gal. Hers were worse, but she still got out of her egg and had her first shed. Even managed her first meal. But we both agreed that even though she seemed like she may be 'okay' now, the risks of her ovulating and throwing slugs as an adult would be a painful death sentence.
You will need to make these hard decisions. But you'll be making them with the best intentions.