I did not mean my comment to come of as a harsh criticism. I was not chastising you
The Admin of the group can be a little slow to reply.
No clue what longevity is. My oldest was acquired as an adult and I have had her for eight years so far so I figure 10-12 is a safe bet
Happy to help
It is all an act. But they sure can throw a great threat display when they are in the mood