Ok so I Candled them and they all seem to have nice looking healthy Veins ! Which to me... confirms that "Athena" is actually a Male !!! She must be a He !
At this point She seems to really like incubating them herself. Am I ok to let her continue to incubate? I have her tank at a steady 88-90 degrees. I've seen lots of video's where people slit or cut the eggs... is that necessary, or will they hatch themselves when ready?