Eek didn't think about the bladder situations, blanket it is!
He has had trouble eating, though I am in the middle of trying to switch him to f/t so that's a whole mother struggle. I leave him alone as much as I can, especially after a meal (when he's taken one) but it's hard to resist opening the lid when I can tell he wants to be out. I'm going to try and feed him again tomorrow after waiting 5 days since I last tried, so I don't think I'll open the lid for him tonight.
It'll be insentive, "maybe if I eat mom will let me out again"
Cross your fingers!