i didn't read through your last post entirely, but i can guess you're getting defensive as you're taking things as a criticism of you, when it is a criticism of your care. separate the two ideas and you will get along better here.
now this is where new keepers always get it wrong.
your ONE lived experience with ONE success story with ONE animal does not trump countless years of practice over countless different types of animals. that's just a fact. we are telling you the Tried and True methods that can apply to almost every ball python (and HAVE been applied, and WORK, for DECADES). i promise you're running a risk of coming into issues in the future if you continue on with your methods.