Just please remember this is a public forum. ANYONE can come here to read threads and posts, and in the eyes of someone who is brand new to reptiles, everyone is a knowledgeable keeper. Those who don't know better can't always distinguish those with experience and successful keeping under their belt opposed to those just starting out and promoting bad advice.
Mistakes happen. We've all been guilty of saying something that's gotten out of hand. I think what's important is to just be more mindful and think before you speak and be aware how others may misinterpret what you say.