sorry to come down on you a bit, but how can you state you have common sense yet prove you ignored everything this forum tells you? you say to be a lurker, but did you actually research anything? you seem very ill-equipped to care for a ball python, let alone two. why did you get them in the first place if you weren't going to provide proper care? your female (that you didn't even realize was female) could have become egg-bound and died, or had other complications from being gravid. you jeopardized her health, as well as the other snake's health, for...what exactly?
in this day and age, there is 0 excuse for this kind of ignorance and nonchalance towards the needs of your animals. you knew what these animals needed to be healthy and happy and you flatly ignored this.
i'm only being harsh so hopefully you can reflect on your actions and how they affect your animals. TBH i would try and re-home one and focus your attention on the other as you seem to lack the resources to care for them both.
freeze the eggs. you cannot provide for the snakes you have now, let alone a clutch.
good luck, for the animals' sake.