i agree that CALM was not trying to be intentionally rude. many of us have interacted with him on the forum for a while so we know his intentions better than most. he can be very straight-forward and a bit sarcastic which, in text form, can come off rude. but he's incredibly knowledgeable and a very good resource here, and he can be funny.
and like craigafrechette said: we are all here because we care about these animals. yes, yours too.
let's get your baby healthy first before we worry about food. they can go a lot longer without food than you think.keep us updated, please!!!