I am a horrible person and get belligerent in debates all the time but I really don't feel that is Dutti's issue. I think it more of a cultural and language barrier. It's really really hard to inflect tone in words especially when the person you are conversing with is from half a world away and English is not their primary language.
That being said, Dutti you have to stop getting defensive the moment someone contradicts your limited experience. When someone who has years of experience in a specific species of snakes tells you that you are making an incorrect statement, it is not an attack on your person but an attempt to help you turn around a husbandry mistake that will lead to the death of your snake. I don't want to make you feel attacked but it feels like you are trolling this forum sometimes with your comments. You might want to take a long hard look at what you are doing and realize your snake's care means more than your pride.