No, she is being the bad friend. What kind of friendship is that if she can't overlook one caged snake? She won't even come inside your house!! Life's too short to deal with people like that IMO. Seriously she needs to grow up. I totally get people who don't like or are afraid of snakes but come on- to not even step a foot in your house?!
i sent a snapchat of Yellow once that basically ended a dying friendship. he was "scared" i tried to explain why they're not, and it ended!
like, Yellow is my son! YOU LOVE HIM OR YOU'RE OUT!!! tho tbh it was an easy choice for me LOL.